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Auditions

The way I see it, dating sites or facebook groups are a lot like a TV talent show. The judges (girls) are vastly outnumbered by the contestants (boys) and they get the final say in which ones they want to choose. If you're a contestant, you come on stage and audition by being yourself. If the judges like you then you get through to the next round. If they don't like you, leave the stage and don't be a dick about it. Everyone thinks the contestants who don't listen or act like a dick when they get knocked back are just idiots who don't realise when their moment is up and just puts the judges off them even more.

Some contestants think they can win the judges over by excessive flirting or focussing their attention on one in particular but usually that's too much and they don't get that the attention is unwanted and won't get them anywhere because the judges know their own minds and have seen it all before. Plus it makes you look like a dick who just doesn't get how people work.

I prefer to just be myself for all my flaws, foibles and features. If someone likes the look of what I am then great, let me know about it. I'm certainly not going out of my way to court favour from the panel of judges. It's up to them to pass or fail me onto round two. I'm not changing who I am, I just need people to like me for what they see in me.

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radiantsoul
Oct. 20th, 2015 08:29 am (UTC)
The judges (girls) are vastly outnumbered by the contestants (boys) and they get the final say in which ones they want to choose. If you're a contestant, you come on stage and audition by being yourself. If the judges like you then you get through to the next round. If they don't like you, leave the stage and don't be a dick about it.

Only it isn't really quite like that. There are about as many women as men. And women do about as much of the searching.
zoefruitcake
Oct. 20th, 2015 12:10 pm (UTC)
It's always best to be yourself even if it is only for yourself
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